…be prepared for them to say “no” to the question “Do you want to be a missionary?”
In fact, you may be better off not even asking it. You might be better off asking, “Have you ever considered being a missionary?”
You’re going to probably get a “no” to that – but that no could lead you to some casual questions and conversation about the missionary task. Don’t pressure. Don’t try to guilt or convict. Ask questions, and listen to the answers!
There are a limited number of candidates out there (or so it seems) and you really can’t afford to turn someone off with your high pressure come-to-the-altar sales techniques. This is not about the decision moment. It’s about the process of relationship that leads to the moment of decision.
Did your spouse agree to marry you on the first date? (I’m sure it’s worked for some folks but it doesn’t work for the majority and thus the odds are against it working for you.)
Be a servant! Find out what they’re thinking. See how you can help them. Encourage them along the path. Figure out what the challenges are between “here” and “the mission field” and take them on, one at a time. Be persistent but be charitable in your persistence!
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